Jealousy is a unnecessary feeling. It has no business in love. Jealousy is just a fear of loss tearing inside of you. Jealousy is the imminent fear of your heart being broken into tiny little pieces that you’ll never be able to put back together again. Jealousy is the pest that gnaws at you in times of irrationality. Jealousy is our insecurities staring right back at us. Jealousy is not love, it’s fear. If you love someone, you should trust them, you should let them be free and not attempt to control their lives. Because once you tighten the grasp, the quicker you will lose them. We are human, we are frivolous creatures, that is our nature. Embrace it. You will never be someone’s one and only, that is a fallacy written by poets dreaming of ideal romances. That is why marriages fail. That is why people lead unhappy lives. It’s all because we try to live the romances that we read in novels and see in Hollywood movies. They are beautiful in every way, and excellent examples of the human spirit at it’s best, but like with all fiction it does not belong in reality. We are creatures of love and we’ll love many. We are creatures of lust and we’ll lust after many. True love does exist, but never expect it to be a pristine example of monogamy. True love is something deeper. True love is a true freedom. True love is loving someone who can never leave your mind. You might lust after someone else, but that doesn’t mean that your true love has been tarnished. Reverse, if you truly love someone even when you lust after someone else, and you keep thinking about your true love regardless, then that love is only strengthen. We are sexual creatures, let’s not inhibit ourselves. Let’s not have petty jealousies and possessiveness, because that is not love, it is fear.